Thursday, November 25, 2004

Happy Birthday Megin Marie Hanely!

Best wishes to you!
The FOM's-
Alex
Dave
Bill
Frank
Paulie
Mr Mucklehoney
Vic
Ritchie
& Jan


Saturday, November 13, 2004

Odd note from my father...

My father died on January 13, 1979, having never met his second grandson. In May 2004, he would have celebrated his 60th Anniversary of Graduation from the University of Pittsburgh with a Degree of Doctor of Dental Medicine.
This note typed itself at exactly 1:48PM which coincides with my son Ed's birth 25 years ago today:

Poppy,

It isn’t often that our worlds seemingly meld through each other in more of the way the universe really works ala Einstein and the Richie Finemans of the world, but with the anniversary of my departure lining up with things and your buddy Col. Pf arriving in Iraq and, let’s not forget today being Eddie's Birthday, I figured what the hell, time to splash a note. (Don’t worry- I failed the entrance exam but am allowed to use the figure of speech.)

Things will improve soon in your life. Someone is discovering all the good stuff was "kind of like it should be" and will be back around Christmas. She knows you would prefer taking care of both her cats instead of just the one, and does miss you, believe it or not. Look at that Uni Church and take her there. It’s a good foundational place- ecumenical in attitude. She may like it enough to stay a while.

Since it’s Eddie’s Birthday- he has a bad cold! - I wanted to thank you for honoring my name in his, and although I believe we only met the Eichhorns once, I am sure Lowell would feel the same way as I do about his carrying our names collectively into the future. We both are in awe of your talent and personage, Edward Lowell, and wish you the best in celebration of a Qter C.

I hope this holiday season provides great personal and spiritual growth for you and Julia, Eddie and all yours touched. Take better care of yourself and never again allow yourself to become robotic. My film viewing, albeit limited, doesn’t have a long list of very happy robots. Lastly- I do mess with the office lights. Confirmation noted.

Love-
Dad

Friday, November 12, 2004

NutCracker Season Arrives Tonight!

The South Shore Wind and Percussion Ensemble's Principal Players of Brasshorns will be performing an eclectic variety of muscal pieces including:

Purcell Suite
America the Beautiful
Selections from The Sound of Music
Simple Gifts
Christmas Carols (by request)
When I'm Sixty-Four (2015(M))
Glad Rags for Brass 5tet

at Molloy College, Rockville Centre, NY, 7PM on November 12, 2004.

Walter Fremer
Mark Bennet- trumpets

William Riley- french horn

Alex Marks- trombone

Roger Geddes- tuba

This Fundraiser Concert will help support the local production of
The NutCracker Ballet and the Rockville Centre Guild for the Arts

Wednesday, November 10, 2004

At least SEINFELD was about nothing...

Just watched TV's WIFE SWAPPING Show

(Aside) I am in the process of making a 50 year old bunch of dental records into confetti and what better thing to do but turn on some mindless background noise after a martini flambe'? Channel 7 out of New York (or was it 5?) BFD - No cable anyways...

So the swap: a very trim Militaristic Christian Vegetarian who home schools and her likewise family versus the slovenly oafish monjo-lardasses whose home makes my place even look like a frick'n palace! (New Crapperspritzenraum soon a cumin in). The wives have to live like the other family's environment for the first 5 days and then the families must comply to the single input/rules of the stranger mom for the next five.

It was only something Jerry Springer could have been proud of, and the worst thing I have seen since TEAM AMERICA.
Sorry almost forgot! Before that there was NANNY 911. They get a British nanny to unravel unruly households.

Hoping my movie watching partner comes home soon! LOL! 'Gettin' late!

Saturday, November 06, 2004

Psilent Pmelody of Pmassalane

I grew up with dogs as the family pet, and the title is the AKC name of my favorite animal Chicklet, an Old English Mastiff who weighed in at a trim 145lbs. She had the most unbelievably gentle temperment imaginable around anyone from little kids to my fat old men buddies who used to sit around and harrumph the night away with tall tales, history reviews and details regarding auto restoration projects. Nothing ruffled her at all over her tragically short life of almost ten years; tragic in that had she been a Miniature Pinscher like Mom's Shorty Flash, her life and her contribution to the family's stability would have been doubled.

All of my pets since finishing school have been named after gums that you buy and chew, usually causing cavities that only a dentist could appreciate in terms of their destructive nature and resultant income. LOL! Her name, in particular, also has a dedication built-in since my study-bud in dental school also had a silent P as a start- Pfirrman to be exact.

The silent P has also interested me ever since I spent time dealing with a psychologist as a result of depression. Examination of one's tendencies and historical decision-making can get very interesting. Additionally he made it clear that the tendencies of most people can be predicted based on familial dynamics and accompanying individual characteristics as well.

At first I strongly disagreed and we went through the nature v nurture arguements; my position was that people can learn to outgrow the cycle, and his was that they may just modify it to some degree but rarely break out of it. I must say that my observations since have proven his position to be more correct. Sadly so I might add. There seems to be a hardwiring circuit that just does not release even in some of the brightest examples. His example was that chronically abused people tend to tolerate, and even seek, situations that prolong such pathology of belittling and invasive ego destruction.

I still do hope that when people tap the old phrase "The fruit doesn't fall far from the tree" as a reason for a psychological compromise, someone proves that there are Johhny Appleseeds still providing some alternatives away from that particular cyclical statistic on a regular basis. We all love apples enough to warrant the effort...



Friday, November 05, 2004

Thank you Pierre Richard Villez

Every once in a while you sit and think about things that most folks don't take the time to consider- like what was the history of your daily appreciations. This evening was one of those times for me.

As I sat in my principal trombone seat listening to Stanley Drucker punch out the Mozart Clarinet Concerto twice at a dress rehearsal, I thought back to the first person in my life that triggered the possibilty of this evening ever happening. That person was Mr. Villez.

Back in the late 1950's I was introduced to music at my local elementary school where Mr. V was the same person whom I had just seen playing trumpet in a summer band concert out at the Valley Stream Bandshell under the direction of Dr. John Smith, the godfather of music in our town; he was part of the Leroy Anderson "Bugler's Holiday" trio along with Frank Tronsor and Laurent Eversley.

We were able to start any instrument we wanted in the summer before second grade and I was amused by that thing that looked like a kool paperclip. ( I still see it that way! LOL!) By the end of second grade I was proficient enough to actually be recommended for private lessons by Mr. Villez, and so he passed along Kenneth Menrad's name to my parents and I started soon afterwards at the outlandish (by today's standards) fee of $3 per week. I was to remain a student of Mr. Menrad until senior year of high school after participating in several NYSSMA events locally and at state levels. Briefly, I went on to study music at both undergraduate and graduate levels with trombonists derived from the Emory Remington set of teachers from the Eastman School of Music- Ron Cox and Reginald Fink, respectively.

So back to this evening's thought. As the rehearsal continued with the 4th Symphony of Tschaikowsky, I was reminded of how special my days have been as a result of being exposed to music in general, and, more specifically as a player. After a long day of work, it has allowed me to feel the comraderie of reproducing the great master works of symphonic literature with 60 other players who come together after years of studying their instruments with the single purpose of reiterating historical musical scores, as well as just having fun doing Dixieland gigs and accompanied solos on occasion.

What may be most important as an aside to all of this is the fact that I have gotten tenfold the enjoyment by inviting people to participate in listening to, or performing in, groups that they may never have had the pleasure of hearing. When that brandy-warm feeling hit me on the ride home, I could only think of the people who have enjoyed music around me over many years and that guy who used to play along at lessons with bubble gum working between takes and a cigarette in his ashtray between students.

I can only hope that I have been able to pass on his energy to others as he did to so many firsthand over his lifetime. Those who have felt the joy of music through me can only thank Pete Villez for all of that vibe...


Wednesday, November 03, 2004

STERN GETS BUSH ELECTED

HollyWood can be thanked as well.

Just as the US does not, and did not, understand the Semetic Mindset (Both Jews and Arabs are commonly stubborn, thank you), Democrats do not understand the Evangelicals (read silent majority).

Word of mouth, as inaccurate as it can and could be is far more reaching than a tv screen ever is.
Jim Bakker used it... We prefer 3D presentations!- learned that from Paul Boucher many years ago.

So when Stern creates a focal point for a sermon, that sermon already has a label attached to it that the congregants have already learned to rally against. I am sure that Stern's praising of Bush the days after 9/11 were NOT discussed since that would have only raised his name up on a tidal wave of support, but when he held up the facts against Dubya and gave reasons for supporting Kerry... well, you saw the election results. All the right wingers seem to live in those red states, don't they??

I prefer the blues.

The demographic of those within drafting age was pitiful. They may listen to Howard, but they forgot to sign up and said FU when it came time to exercise their civic duty. Wait till their reality hits the FAN.

Yikes!